Colton Underwood has taken a trip down memory lane as he reflects on his virginity experience and his time on reality television. With the debut of Hulu’s new dating series Are You My First?, co-hosts Colton Underwood and Kaitlyn Bristowe share their personal stories about losing their virginity and the misconceptions surrounding first-time experiences.
Colton Underwood’s Complicated Journey with Virginity
Underwood, who previously appeared on The Bachelorette and went on to become the lead on The Bachelor, revealed that his virginity was a significant part of his narrative on the show. Known for being open about his experiences, he noted that when he participated in Becca Kufrin’s season, his virginity became a central theme.
“Being known as a virgin on a national platform brought a lot of complexities,” Underwood shared. “There was shame and guilt intertwined with my struggle to understand my own sexuality.”
A Memorable Revelation
Underwood’s admission of being a virgin to his family and friends came unexpectedly, as it was revealed on television before he had the chance to inform them personally. He recounted, “I had this whole plan to tell my family, but they found out through a teaser clip of the show before I could say anything.” However, he admitted this approach helped alleviate the pressure of having to have multiple conversations about it later.
Reflecting on the experience, Underwood stated, “Honestly, it was a better way for me to just rip the band-aid off.” He expressed relief knowing it was now out in the open.
Kaitlyn Bristowe Shares Her Misconceptions
Alongside Underwood, Kaitlyn Bristowe also discussed her first-time experience, noticing a common theme among contestants on the show. She recalled having “misconceptions” about what losing her virginity would be like, saying, “My misconception was that it was going to be romantic and beautiful.” Instead, her experience was less than ideal. “Nobody told me it was going to be terrible,” she laughed.
This candidness serves to create a supportive environment for the contestants of Are You My First?, allowing them to express their feelings without fear of judgment. Bristowe mentioned, “It was important to create a space where people felt comfortable discussing these real-life emotions.”
A Unique Setting for First Experiences
The format of Are You My First? allows contestants who have maintained their virginity to come together, creating a different dynamic from Underwood’s experiences. Bristowe noted, “These individuals do not have to admit anything; they already know they are virgins. It takes away the intimidating factor and fosters bonding.” Sharing this common ground establishes an environment of support and confidence.
Reflection on the Past
As Underwood gears up for the show’s premiere, he looks at how far he has come over the years. His journey of self-discovery and acceptance has inspired him to help others in similar situations. “This show is about giving contestants the space to embrace their experiences and discover themselves,” he stated.
The premiere of Are You My First? is drawing near, and both Underwood and Bristowe’s stories showcase how much has changed since their first experiences with love and intimacy. With more openness surrounding these topics in today’s society, they hope to break stigmas and promote a healthier discussion about virginity and relationships.
FAQs about Colton Underwood and Are You My First?
What is Are You My First about?
It is a dating series that focuses on a cast of all virgins exploring their first experiences with love and intimacy.
How did Colton Underwood come out as a gay man?
Colton Underwood publicly came out in 2021 after struggling with his sexuality during his time on reality television.
What are some misconceptions about losing virginity?
Common misconceptions include the belief that it is always romantic and beautiful, while in reality, it can be much different.
Who co-hosts Are You My First with Colton Underwood?
Kaitlyn Bristowe co-hosts the series alongside Colton Underwood, sharing her own experiences as well.
When does Are You My First premiere?
The series is set to premiere on August 18, 2025.
